Astrology Out of the Closet

In response to this morning's reader comment, yes astrology can be helpful in figuring out the primary purpose of a relationship and the core dynamics at play. I've had a long-standing, on-off relationship with the Fireman, and it was always so confusing to me (and I'm presuming to him to him too, or maybe not. He and I rarely see things the same way). After 13 years, I got our charts done, and then a third chart done called a composite chart which is the average chart created by two charts. Composite charts represent the relationship and its particular needs and interests, apart from those of both people. Our composite said that we're great business partners. That explained it. He's an intregal part of the business of life for me. I think we should have bought rental properties together years ago, and stuck with that.

Being a divorce attorney who is always looking for other tools and techniques to use in helping clients overcome conflict and move smoothly through the transition, I would very much appreciate the opportunity to work iwth a couple who would have their charts to be studied during the process. Astrology can answer questions such as how are we agressive and defensive, and what type of language is calming to us. Are any of you (divorcing couples with conflict interested in seeing how astrology can help you break the stalemate) out there? I know a very good couple's therapist who was also classically trained in theology at Notre Dame. His name is Dan Keusal and he could provide the astrological insight for you.

You know, I struggle with posting this astrology ideology here. I know that it is not well thought of by everyone and it could offend potential clients. But I think that holding back and not talking about what you believe out of respect for those people who may be offended or uncomfortable is the type of silent acquiesence that allows bad ideas to breed. I encourage you to be a bit more forthcoming with your unique (albeit more controversial) ideas today.

Have a good one.

Comments

[elsa]

Very cool. I am impressed. :)

[Lise]

***Excellent*** idea!

[danetta cordova]

arrgh! You sound like such a nice, smart lady- but Astrology! Please read some good science on this-it is self-fullfilling general ideas that "seem" to apply to you if you look hard enough. The gravity from the doc and nurse at your birth are stronger than any dang planets! I have been teaching psy. for 20 years and this stuff makes me crazy! : )

[Stefani at Lawlady.com]

You know, the esteemed Ken Wilbur actually agrees with you that astrology can't be proven. But he will concede that it makes for a good personality typing system, such as the Myers-Brigg test. Thank you for writing your comment. I'll tell you, knowing the signs can be a very enchanting study experience.

[Vedic Astrology]

2nd, 7th & 11th house showes about happy marriage, while 12th gtom above houses, 1st, 6th & 10th are gives Divorce.
Thanks.
Dr. Sudhanshu
India.

[astrology]

Composite charts represent the relationship and its particular needs and interests, apart from those of both people.

[Beth Turnage]

People who say astrology can't be proven, or use the old "gravity" saw really don't know what they are talking about. They also don't realize that while we observe gravitational effect, we don't know scientifically what causes it. So observing an effect and not being able to explain it scientifically is not a proof that it does not exist.

I fully support a use of astrology in divorce mediation. A good astrologer will let you know what each really wants and needs, and warns you about the "bad" guys (girls and guys) before you get started.

[Mketu]

I do believe in astrology as planetary movements do have impact on ones life. I've heard there are some rituals performed to minimize the negative impact of certain planets. Is it true?