I'll Never Have Sex Again and Other Myths About Divorce

I'm putzing around writing my book(lette), at the rate seeds turn into trees.  My book(lette) is:

I'll Never Have Sex Again and Other Myths of Divorce

Actually, I'll confess.  I thought up the title, but not much more.  I don't have enough myths.  Can you help fill me in? What are the biggest myths you discovered going through the divorce process?

Here is what I have so far:

Myth 1:  Your Spouse is Going to Screw You

The Truth:  You are going to screw yourself with that paranoid thinking.   Fear makes the process worse than it has to be. 

Myth 2:  I'm never going to sex again. 

Wrong.  But it may be by yourself for a while.  (Or it should be.  It's called Sex for One. You can find books about  it on the internet.  It's what single people have been doing in the interim for years. Get used to it.)

Myth 3:  People don't like hearing Whiney, Divorce Tales.

That is true. This is not a myth!  Don't destroy otherwise good relationships with ad-nauseum complaints about your spouse, your process, your financial status.  Share the pity-party with people who understand. If you would like to be a charted club member of the Lawlady's Agony Discussion Group, let me know. We'll get a group going.  I'm assuming I can find the technology to host an Agony Session via internet.  If Daniel Pink can do it for marketing, I can do it for Divorce.

Oh dear, I've got to run.  I promised myself no blogging past 10:00 pm.  We 40+ women need our beauty rest (if we don't intend to look it!)

But please do pass this blog along. I'd like to finish a book(lette) by September before I start massage school.  Which brings me to:

Myth 4:  Life is Lonely After Divorce.

No it isn't. You get to be a kid again and do all those fun things you never had time to do when you were too busy sitting around eating Ben and Jerry's on the coach watching American Idol, not having sex with your spouse who repulsed you.  You get to do cool things like go to Massage School. 

Comments

[alfonso ramos]

Oh please, after divorce people get to reinvent themselves and find missing pieces of their personalities. Many divorcees experience and even fuller and happier sex lifes after divorce.

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